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[20 May 2007|05:05pm] |
Well everything's still extremely fuzzy. There's a very good chance my ex and I will get back together though... apparently he had quite an awful time at the other guy's place...
But yea... distraction:
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| Sweet Insanity |
[18 May 2007|12:14am] |
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Well on the same day I made my last post (Monday) I actually paid £74.60 and travelled to Wales to see my ex. I arrived at Bristol Parkway at about midnight and he was kind enough to take me the hour journey back to his place.
Now, that may sound insane, but the situation is complicated and it's not like we're at a bad stage or wrong stage, it's just confused.
It was an enjoyable 3 days (I came back early Thursday). We talked maturely for the most part. Played games, had a meal, watched programmes, etc.
If anything though it's blown the relationship fairly wide open again.
We swapped many a kind word. Though "I love you" wasn't expected it was swapped and meant by both of us. Confused? I'm not sure if we are or not.
I actually told him that it may be a good idea if he tried with this guy he's meant to be boyfriends with though. You never know it may just make everything somehow easier. Of course I feel weird that he's there enjoying himself with this guy, but for the most part on the way down I tried damn hard to resolve myself for the worse case which would be him being with this guy. That mindset was also destroyed obviously, and now I need to try and rebuild that, but it'll be hard in light of everything.
On the phone before he went to see this guy he said "I really want to see you again soon" so who knows what will occur?
I just want him happy with whomever he chooses.
There's a lot of life to live, and I guess if I put my mind to it I can live it well!
He also let me have a fox puppet his nan bought him. Thing is it's a bit scary looking and not really particularly foxy looking, but oh well, it's fun anyway I guess.
We named it Timmy after the South Park character. Here are some pics:
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| Turmoil ~nung~ |
[14 May 2007|02:16pm] |
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Erf... my first proper journal entry! Woo, etc.
I'm all bleh (or blah) to the extreme. Been a very weird past week or so due to relationship stuff, which, coupled with a landslide of stupid mistakes by me has only ever looked to get worse.
I'm aware what people say about first loves and when it goes sour: "cut and run". You more than likely can't be friends, because it hurts too much. That first person you ever thought "Oh, I'm going to be with you forever. We'll get married!" etc.
The cut-and-run ideal doesn't bode so well for me though, because we do still have feelings for one another that are really deep. He's just not sure if he can continue to be with me like that. Maybe he just wants a change. Maybe it's the fact the small arguments we have stick in his mind so much he just doesn't know. But everyone argues so... yea.
The situation, I guess, is made ever worse that's it a choice for him between me and someone else. That's sort of a hard thing to take. It's not me or nothing and move on with his life. It's me or some other guy... I guess I dunno. The way he acts sometimes recently makes me think he's decided. He seems pretty happy, but that may just be because he's getting his exams done with.
I really don't know at the moment >.>
And as a complete aside:
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| One day... |
[08 May 2007|11:52pm] |
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I may use this as an actual real journal...
Like I could tell you about my overly random bank holiday weekend when my ex came to visit! But no, we'll not go there, we'll just take things literally:
by DevilDuck
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| Serenity... |
[29 Apr 2007|11:40am] |
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Your results:
You are Kaylee Frye (Ship Mechanic)
| Kaylee Frye (Ship Mechanic) |
| 60% |
| Zoe Washburne (Second-in-command) |
| 55% |
| Dr. Simon Tam (Ship Medic) |
| 50% |
| Wash (Ship Pilot) |
| 45% |
| Derrial Book (Shepherd) |
| 45% |
| Jayne Cobb (Mercenary) |
| 40% |
| A Reaver (Cannibal) |
| 40% |
| Malcolm Reynolds (Captain) |
| 40% |
| Inara Serra (Companion) |
| 35% |
| River (Stowaway) |
| 35% |
| Alliance |
| 20% |
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You are good at fixing things.
You are usually cheerful.
You appreciate being treated
with delicacy and specialness.
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Click here to take the "Which Serenity character are you?" quiz...
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| Let the random begin! |
[20 Apr 2007|03:03pm] |
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(slightly resized click to big it up!)
The b3tans never do get boring. Especially not JollyJack with his little strips like this :)
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| I've decided!! |
[20 Apr 2007|11:32am] |
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I've had an LJ account for about 5 years and now I think I'll actually use it!
For now it'll be random pics and general toss, but of course that's completely pointless if I don't make friends on here anyway so get prepared LJ world! :D
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